I was at the Early Pregnancy Unit today. The difference in care between this and the IVF unit was so vast. The sonographer here to the time to measure everything and explain the findings rather than me having to guess.
Still no heartbeat.
Fetal Pole only 4.3mm (about 6 weeks) so they won't do an ERPC yet.
Repeat scan next Friday.
This is all a precaution due to the one in a million chance that things develop. Hospital protocol rather than actual hope. They have to be careful.
The hope is finished. It is over.
Friday, July 27, 2007
Closure.... Not Quite.
Posted by Carrie at 11:22 AM
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Oh Carrie....
I'm so very sorry.
I'm going to sound all polyanna here, so ignore the following if you just don't feel like it.
Is there *any* possibility that your dates could be a little out? One wouldn't expect a HB at < 5mm CRL, and if the <5mm CRL is due to dates rather than Bad Stuff Happening well.....
Please hang in there. Email me if you need someone to 'type' to.
xxx
J
Oh honey, I'm so, so sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. (hug)
Carrie, I'm so, so, so very sorry. I wish there was something more eloquent or reassuring I could say. Just know that I'm thinking of you and wishin you much peace.
I'm so incredibly sorry. You are in my thoughts.
I am just so sorry.
I'm so sorry. There's nothing else I can think of to say
I am so sorry sweeite, there is nothing that I can say that will make this better.
Thinking of you, loads of love xxx
Oh my god Carrie, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm sorry you get your hopes shot up and then smashed right back down, and that you don't get closure right away - instead you get more f*g waiting. I'll be thinking of you, hoping you've got lots of love and support at home.
Oh Carrie, I am weeping for you. I am truly sad and sorry that you received such news and, yet, still have to wait. Wishing you and your man much comfort in the next days. Thinking of you.
XXXXXXX HUGS and plenty sorry, sorry, sorry for you :(
I am so, so orry.
Oh, I'm so sorry. I know you want closure so much. ((HUGS))
Oh Carrie, I am so very sorry. I am hoping you find resolution soon. Thinking of you.
Carrie, I'm so incredibly sorry. Hang in there sweetie.
I'm thinking of you. I'm so sorry and can't imagine how hurt you must be. Please try to take care of yourself.
Carrie--I'm sorry. So very sorry.
This is so unfair. Carrie, I'm so sorry hun. I'm thinking of you, although I know that wont help you. But I am.
It's just not fair. I'm so very sorry Carrie.
Oh Carrie, I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say, but I'm thinking of you!
xoxo
Oh my gosh.. Carrie. I'm so sorry. I just caught up on your blog and I was so sad to hear of your news.
I can only imagine how hard this all must be for you. Thinking of you and you will be in my prayers.
I just found your blog today and I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss.
I'll be thinking of you and sending loads of prayers your way.
XOXO,
Kristen
Oh Carrie, I'm so sorry. There's nothing that I could say that could make you feel better but just know that I'm here, thinking of you. Hang in there.
oh no! not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.not fair.
so unbelievably NOT FAIR.
Just catching up....and my heart dropped into my stomach when I read your last couple of posts. I am so sorr Carrie. If it is all over I do hope you can find some positives from this in a little while. Hugs x
I am so so sorry, Carrie.
Dropping by again. Thinking of you. Hugs.
Thinking of you. This is all so inexplicably difficult. I'm sorry, sorry, sorry.
Oh, Carrie, no. No. I'm so very sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Carrie, honey... I am so so sorry that you are experiencing this.
My thoughts are with you.
I'm so sorry Carrie :( xo
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